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Last Updated: March 5, 2024

Couples Interviews

Real couples share their approach to relationship wellness.

Jeremy & Cori

Last Updated: January 11, 2024

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Case & Bryan

Case and Bryan talk through the importance of not just communicating your feelings, but really listening to your partner.

Mary & Scott

Compassion, humor, and intelligence are just a few of Scott's favorite things about Mary.

Lian & Colin

Even after 10 years, Lian and Colin can't stop making each other laugh. Learn about their Rose Bud Thorn and their tips for conflict resolution.

Micah & Janjira

Long distance has been the perfect start to countless beautiful relationships and Micah and Janjira are no exception.

Omar & David

It only took an hour for Omar to realize David was the one for him. Now they've been together for 7 years and they're sharing…

Fran & Melanie

Learn more about Fran and Mel and how they are prioritizing each other's happiness and speaking their feelings in conflict.

Becca & Kev

Becca and Kev are all about honesty and communication, but still find ways to make each other laugh.

Audrey & Felipe

From first impressions to fifth date picnics, this couple's journey has been marked by profound insights and genuine connection.

Rory and Anna

Laughter and space are the key for Rory and Anna. They found couples therapy through Ours and believe in going proactively.

Tsega & Bonnie

Tsega and Bonnie have been together for 24 years, and attribute their commitment to bettering their communication to couples therapy.

Ask a Therapist

Expert answers from a licensed couples therapist.

How to have intentional relationships

Last Updated: March 22, 2024

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Effects of Pornography In Relationships

Every Friday, we open our Instagram to the Ours community and let couples submit questions to our team of couples therapists. We pick the most…

What should we talk about on a roadtrip?

Fifteen questions, designed by a couples therapist, for long road trips with your partner.

How can I tell the difference between immaturity and maturity?

Two key, therapist-recommended questions to ask yourself after an argument.

How can I get the most out of premarital counseling?

Thoughts on what to do and not do when you're considering premarital counseling.

When are you ready for marriage?

Our Head Clinician, Benu, weighs in on the obvious and not so obvious things to consider.

How to even out the parental load

A couples therapist recommends 6 steps you can take to even out the parental load.

How often should we be intimate?

There's no right answer, but research and a framework from a couples therapist can help you approach this question.

We want to grow together but…

Spend 30 minutes going through these 5 therapist-approved questions.

Relationship Wellness

Deep dives, research, and guides.

EFT couples therapy: What is it, and how does it work?

Last Updated: June 6, 2024

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Keeping the Flame Alive After Having Kids

As told by Rory & Anna Mellor, a dynamic husband-and-wife team based in vibrant Austin, Texas, have captivated over 1 million followers across social media…

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How to set boundaries in a relationship: Balancing clarity with compassion

Healthy boundaries and a strong sense of self are essential to maintaining a strong, stable relationship. But how do you build up boundaries without pushing…

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From Chore Wars to Household Harmony

As told by Alyson Bullock is a married millennial mom of 3, therapist turned coach, content creator, and relationship expert.

Healing After Hurtful Words

As told by Shadeen Francis, a licensed psychotherapist, educator, and speaker dedicated to helping people connect with their feelings and improve their relationships.

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Balancing work and relationships a challenge for 74% of people

Work is hard, but so are relationships. Our data shows that stresses at work and relationships often bleed into others, further strengthening the need for…

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I have no sex drive, and it’s ruining my relationship. What do I do?

If you or your partner has no sex drive, it’s not as uncommon as you think. There are healthy ways to work through it together.…

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20 at-home communication exercises for couples

Regularly implementing communication exercises for couples can build intimacy and trust. Learn how to effectively practice these exercises at home. Communication is vital to every…

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Is Couples Therapy Covered by Insurance? A Comprehensive Guide

There’s no doubt that your relationship will have a huge impact on your happiness and overall well-being. But how do you stay together when even…

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11 types of couples therapy and their benefits (+ exercises)

There’s no one-size-fits-all form of couples therapy, which is why there are a wide range of options to choose from to strengthen your relationship. Every…

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The Gottman Method for couples therapy

The Gottman Method is one of the most popular forms of couples therapy from the top researcher on what makes marriages last. Dr. John Gottman…

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Top 10 best couples therapists in the Bay Area [2024]

Some couples seek therapy to resolve conflict or bring back intimacy, and others use it as a tool to proactively strengthen their relationship. If you want to improve your relationship,…

Pre-marriage counseling: Benefits + what to expect

Pre-marriage counseling is a great way to create a strong foundation for your marriage long before the wedding happens. You’ll learn how to align your goals, resolve conflict, and avoid…

What Is Premarital Counseling?

In this piece we'll walk you through the ins and outs of premarital counseling, plus walk you through how we do things differently at Ours. What is premarital counseling? Premarital…

10 best marriage counselors in Cleveland

Finding the right marriage counseling service in Cleveland can take a lot of work, so we put together a list of the top 10 counselors in the area. In 1990,…

Top 10 best couples counselors in NYC

There are great couples counselors throughout New York City who can help you strengthen your relationship. The marriage rate in New York was at 5.2 per 1,000 residents as of…

How much is couples therapy?

If you’re new to therapy, the cost of couples counseling can be daunting — here’s what to expect. Couples may seek out therapy to help foster a healthier relationship. Through…

5 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Engaged

5 questions, for you and your partner to go through before you get engaged.

OURS: The Feature Film

A feature film directed by Vivian Kim, capturing real life couples in NYC. Jasmine + Miah Jasmine and Miah were gracious enough to let us film at their apartment in…

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